Wednesday, 15 April 2015

Own your shit, the way to happiness...




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Own your shit, the way to happiness...

After a 10 day residential, transformational teacher training I received some positive feedback… “I love how you own your shit” I feel to share my insights from my own personal experience and transformation over the 10 days and years of practice (and continuing practice)….

Nobody can burst your bubble of bliss but they can trigger your response system which can adjust your feeling of natural bliss and guess what, you have the power to become aware of these responses…..judgments, anger, sadness, inner conflict and general mind projections can all be changed. This is taking responsibly (owning your shit) .…the ability to respond.

The mind is an amazing part of the human physiology, over the years of early development its filtration systems form and depending on different eco-factors (environment, family, society, schooling, friends) you will have a unique response system (possibly reaction system) as an adult. Everyone’s internal body mind mapping is different; the mind filters, categorises and sends information to the body creating an emotional response and thus a response or reaction.

The great news is if your eco-factors could have been improved as a child and your filtration system could be better as an adult you have the choice to become aware and change it. You can choose happiness through becoming aware of your thoughts, your emotional system and your behaviour.
Next time some information from the outer world rocks your inner world and you feel off centre, not in your natural state of bliss and contentment bring some awareness to the feelings you are experiencing, take a look your behaviour and examine your thoughts. Sit alone for a while, breath into your heart and ask yourself “is it true what I am thinking, how is what I am thinking making me feel, how am I behaving and do I have the choice to change?” Examine what your mind is filtering and projecting, breathe into the heart and ask “if I saw this situation from the heart how would it look & feel, how would I behave & what would I be saying”.

Keep breathing and keep moving down into the heart space, know that the world can be experienced and perceived from here. The aim is to realign the body mind back to a natural state of happiness, bliss, contentment. If you are feeling off centre know that the body mind is letting you know it is time to retreat inwards to become aware and re-balance.

Keep practicing coming back to the breath and heart, over time you will begin to notice that things that once triggered your system no longer do. You are slowly resetting your body mind programming (neuro-linguistic- programming, NLP) where it is needed. The breath and awareness are powerful tools for you to take responsibility for your happiness, well-being and sanity. It is up to you to use them J










Shanti Kate 78
Transformational Coach,
Alternative Events UK,
Love Biodanza

www.shantikate78.co.uk

Wednesday, 4 February 2015

Super Green, Super Refreshing Smoothie...




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Super Green Smoothie

Yesterday I tried this super green smoothie that I found online as part of a winter detox, personally I will use it as a healthy booster. It’s really tasty with all the flavours coming through it is very refreshing & pretty pulpy. I halved the recipe for an extra-large smoothie, I found that blending all the ingredients together except the spinach is easier, then adding the spinach to the mix and blend.

Ginger-Mint Pear Smoothie
Makes 3 cups / 700ml
Ingredients (all organic if possible):
2 pears
1 avocado, flesh scooped out
1½ cups / 35g firmly packed baby spinach
1 cup / 250 ml water
2 tsp. minced ginger
1 ½ Tbsp. freshly-squeezed lemon juice
10-20 mint leaves (to your taste)
Directions:
1. Place all ingredients except the spinach in a blender, blend until smooth, then add the spinach, again blending until smooth.
Enjoy!










Shanti Kate 78
Transformational Coach,
Alternative Events UK,
Love Biodanza

www.shantikate78.co.uk

Tuesday, 3 February 2015

Moving from fear to balance…



 
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The last two weeks have been very calm and peaceful, prior to this although I was happy and positive fear was driving me. The fear of lack was creating panic and a lot of adrenaline to get me up working morning, noon and night was rushing through the system. I felt I was aligned and working well but having stopped for the last Biodanza training weekend I came to realise my body is exhausted from tension, stress and adrenaline.

This morning my body aches and I have a headache, I feel it will take some time for the body to recover from over use of the adrenal glands, hyper tension and stress over years of allowing this to happen. I know a physical shift and a negative mental belief has shifted so I will not default to the panic and adrenal setting which is the usual case.

Sometimes life or the experience of it has become truly painful until I really listen, wake up and make the changes!

Transforming base metal (fear) to gold (love).
Biodanza, Ars Magna.
(the magnificent art 23rd– 25th Jan 2015)…..

FEAR; Fear has been living my life, making the decisions. Fear of lack, fear of not being good enough, fear of time, fear of human beings, it has been running me, a stress that has run through my blood and seeped into my bones. If fear is the sting, then love is the balm.

LOVE; Love is not something that can be obtained, love is something that is to be experienced, to run through the body as life, Love is Life, Life is Love. Fear is the guard, the padlock. Recognising and welcoming the fear to transform it with the surrender to love.

From base metal (fear) to gold (love), it is through the dance, the group, the music, and the movement that love can begin its transformation.









Shanti Kate 78
Transformational Coach,
Alternative Events UK,
Love Biodanza

www.shantikate78.co.uk

Monday, 2 February 2015

Lifestyle and stress




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Starting to wake up and question my lifestyle after the last Biodanza training weekend, realising I live with high levels of stress in my body when I work, even when I am feeling positive a certain level of tension, fear and stress are driving me.

According to Pathologist Arthur Jores (1901 -1982 Germany ) there are 2000 diseases common in humans, 1500 of which are due to lifestyle.

Learning to find a balance is a challenge, but is key to feeling happy and healthy.

Biodanza lowers stress levels and helps to regulate the body, dancing on a weekly basis can contribute towards raising happiness and bringing a sense of peace.










Shanti Kate 78
Transformational Coach,
Alternative Events UK,
Biodanza, Inspiration

www.shantikate78.co.uk

Sunday, 1 February 2015

Celebrity Big Brother, the fascinating social experiment.




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I watched celebrity big brother last night, lots of conflict, abusive behaviour towards one another which apparently makes goods viewing because let’s face it if everyone got on in peace and harmony there would really be nothing to watch according to the mind.

As I watch people tearing each other apart & colluding my mind starts to make judgments about others behaviour, likes, dis-likes, “ooo that woman is poison”. I sit there both fascinated and saddened by the human interaction & conflict.

I feel sad that it is a challenge for a group of people to be put in a somewhat unnatural environment without their usual human comforts for a short space of time and actually get on. People operating from personality, from their model of the world, their beliefs and values so strong that they cannot accept the others. Operating from a place of conflict & not being able to see one another.

I fantasies about getting them dancing Biodanza together, removing their daily masks and body amour to have a real meeting with a human being who has a different view of the world, connecting through the heart through the universal language of music & movement.

Questions start to arise in me…..Has humanity/society got so individualised, so separated, so isolated and neurotic that living closely with each other is impossible?

How has it become that a group of people have become so attached to their values that they cannot accept another’s, even for a short period of time?

Now don’t get me wrong I am not saying I have this all sussed and sorted myself, I have lived in communities and shared houses my whole life and I still struggle to find peace within myself whilst doing so but it is getting easier over the years as I keep questioning myself, my thoughts and my behaviour.

Overall I did enjoy big brother as I find human behaviour a fascinating subject.

Comments and conversation welcome below...








Shanti Kate 78
Transformational Coach,
Alternative Events UK,
Biodanza, Inspiration

www.shantikate78.co.uk

Sunday, 22 December 2013

Blog, News & Events

Shanti's Blog, News & Events....

Hello Life Lovers,


Belated Solstice Blessing.

Wow I can't believe its only been a month since my last blog, it feels like so much has happened, so many twists and turns. I feel as the though the initial excitement of my new venture dwindle a little, challenges came my way & the universe is asking is this what you really want? The conclusion...yes, yes it is, with some re-evaluation and adjustment of the vision I continue happily, stronger and a little more mature than when I set off.

I feel very blessed with all the creative friends who are coming into my work life to work alongside, support and learn from. At the start of December I spent the day with Guy Barrington dancing my creativity, connecting with new friends and bringing in the new vision for the new year. I really enjoy Guy's work, it brings a totally new and refreshing perspective on life. I find Guy is a very powerful facilitator and a great friend who I have amusing adventures with. Guy will be offering his work in 2014 and will be at my party January 11th in London. You can keep up to date with him on Facebook
A new connection has come into my life, Ma Deva Nidhi, a beautiful Osho Sannyasin holistic therapist and body-worker. I enjoyed a morning with Nidhi and experienced her work. A full body reading, kinesiology looking at what will help my body to function happily, some tips on how to instantly regain balance, how to boost the immune system and a beautiful massage which reconnected me back into my body, heart & soul. Nidhi has a beautiful flow in her bodywork and I could feel her years of experience and intuitive touch. Full details of her website can be found further below.

Throughout the month I have very much enjoyed putting together my first ever party, I have always wanted to manage events and now I have created one. The event will be great with some awesome friends involved, I am very excited and have to stop myself inviting any more talent friends as the night keeps on growing and we only have an evening together! The event is over half full and the crowd fund pot is filling up, helping towards putting the party on. If you want to make sure you can come here is your invitewww.shantikate78.co.uk/partyinviteRSVP.html full line up details are also below.

I happily continue to promote Being A Star, the Dorset School of Biodanza Training, only three years to go to qualify ha haa and Angelic Reiki Training with Soham, more details of these workshops can be found below.
 

My journey with Tracy Seed...


My friendship and work journey continues to grow with Tracy Seed, I have learnt so much from spending time with her at her workshop's. Without The Work of Tracy SeedI don't know where I would be now, the month has had it's challenges and with Tracy's work I have learnt to communicate clearer with people, to re-evaluate and to recognise emotional over-whelm when it kicks in.

I look forward to continuing to work alongside Tracy. If you would like to know more about Tracy and what she has to offer please click on the link to her website. Tracy will be running her "Journey into Leadership" again in February and I can highly recommend her teaching even if you feel as though leadership is not for you it is amazing how much helpful insight can be gained from her work.
Creative and Dynamic Journey into Leadership
 

NVC monthly practice day with Tracy, The Suprising Purpose of Anger...

(Non-Violent-Communication)
"The suprising purpose of anger"
NVC monthly practice day 10.30am - 4.00pm

This is a monthly event, a day of meditative moments & empathic connection through practice exercises making reference to the work of Dr Marshall Rosenberg.


Join us for a day of nourishment and renewal.
Meditations and NVC practices for the heart and soul.


We begin the new year exploring the surprising purpose of anger:
If you are interested in discovering more about yourself do join us.

We will explore:
How to use our personal power and when times are tough
How to express strong emotions when things are important to us
How to cope when others are angry around us
How to access the inner strength of nonviolent communication (NVC).
How to scream in giraffe.


Structure of the Day:
Welcome
Short Meditation
Opening Circle
NVC basics
Practice exercises.
Reflections and agreements
Closing
 We will break for lunch at around 1.30pm and request that participants bring food to share. We eat as a communty. Tea, coffee and water will be provided.

For more information contact Tracy:
Email: mail@tracyseedcoaching.com or Mobile: 07795632878

Next NVC Day: 5th January
Cost: £35.00
Facebook:
 Events on Facebook with Tracy
Venue: The Therapy Center, 96 Martins Road, Shortlands, Bromley, BR2 0EF
 
 Tracy is also offering weekly empathic circles for family matters,
on a Wednesday evening 7.30pm - 9.00pm

If you would like to know more about Tracy and what she has to offer please click on this link to her website. The Work of Tracy Seed.

You can also find Tracy on Facebook or Meetup:
www.meetup.com/NVC-Group-Practice/
www.facebook.com/TracySeedCoach

Shanti's Party Line Up...

This event is being crowd funded, please donate online
to help towards the event costs at:
www.gofundme.com/shantikate78



For Full Party Details and Links please go to:
www.shantikate78.co.uk/partyinviteRSVP.html

 

Being a Star - from Fear to Self Love with Svabahvo at Osho Leela...

In this group we will experiment with expanding how we move and express ourselves onstage which reflects in our daily lives. With the support of the group we will look at what stops us from going beyond our limits and learn to accept and love ourselves in the process of finding our freedom.

We all have judgements about ourselves, especially our bodies, our voices and how we move and relate when we are in front of people under the spotlight. With the support of the group, we will learn to trust and accept who we are. From this space, creativity comes naturally, and we start to love ourselves and open our hearts. And so in our daily lives we become more empowered, confident and relaxed to be the stars that we really are.

Date: 17 Jan 2014, start time 18:00

Cost:
£ 160.00 /  Food & dorm incl.
Early Bird rate: £ 150.00 if paid 7 days in advance

Places: 20

Please book by: 17 Jan 2014

For booking information click on this link
Being A Star at Osho Leela

Or Email Svabhavo at beingastar2@gmail.com

 

Biodanza Training: Ecstatic Moments of Present Aliveness -
The Vivencia

  
School of Biodanza Module 3
with Niraj

One of the princpal aims of Biodanza is, through the specific music and exercises, to create ectstatic moments of present aliveness. You become so involved in the moment that thinking stops and you revert to the ‘being’ you once were. It's a tremendous liberation to experience this feeling. In Biodanza we call it vivencia. Come and be present and enter this state of being fully alive, be it in an embrace of exquisite tenderness or dancing your wildness or your passion.
 
Date: 24 Jan 2014   18:00
 
Cost:
£ 245.00 / Non-school members
Early Bird rate: £ 235.00 if paid 7 days in advance
£ 220.00 / School members
Early Bird rate: £ 210.00 if paid 7 days in advance

Places: 100
Please book by: 24 Jan 2014
Details at www.dancebiodanza.co.uk/
or contact me Shanti for more information.

January 31st 2014  Angelic Reiki Training with Soham...

Ma Prem Soham...
A teacher and a Holistic Therapist. She has been a teacher of Angelic Reiki for the past 5 years. Before that, she taught Reiki in the Usui tradition for 8 years. Her purpose has been to help individuals realise their fullest potential through the most effective ways possible. She works from a whole person basis, helping individuals to integrate all aspects of their being: mental, emotional, physical, spiritual. 


Dates of next course:
31st January – 2nd  February, 2014
Friday eve:  6:30 – 9:30 pm
Saturday:  10:00 am – 6:00 pm
Sunday:  10:00 am – 6:00 pm

Early Bird Special:
£315.00 (if register before 10th January 2014)

Energy exchange:   £360.00
Venue: London, TBC

For registrations, enquires & further information:
Contact Shanti


Email: reviveevents@shantikate78.co.uk

Mobile: 07572 316123
Meetup www.meetup.com/ReviveEvents/events/152037632/

Facebook www.facebook.com/groups/revivealternativeevents/
 

Ma Deva Nidhi Website Link...

 
So that is all from me for this month, wow!
Have a great Festive Period and see you in the New Year at my party.
Revive on Meetup
www.meetup.com/
ReviveEvents
Alternative Events Page London
facebook.com/
alternativeeventslondon
Alternative  Events Page UK
facebook.com/
alternativeeventsuk


 


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Monday, 16 December 2013

Under a month to go...


Only one month to go...



We're going to have lots of fun together with cacao, magic, dance, music & meditation.

The night will begin with a few hellos from the Revive party talent, followed by a Warm Wild Cacao & Ecstatic Dance with Beckie. Warmed up & wild it’s time to dance to the sounds of Graham Edensounds. Meeting new & old friends, hanging out, relaxing, dancing, as you wish. The night will then mellow a little with
Guy Barrington's connective flow dance, bringing us together for Pauls relaxing Melodies, Mantras & Moments, rounding off our perfect Revive
evening together.

We will also be delighted by Amy HoopLovin, our hooping extraordinaire,
Michelle our Divine Drummer &
Ethan King our magician at The Heart of Magic
 
This event is R.S.V.P. only,
through the event invite or MeetUp


Venue:
The venue is a 5 minute walk from Kings Cross Station, full details will be confirmed nearly the time of the event.
 
R.S.V.P with Guests:
You are welcome to bring friends along, please remember to RSVP with guests on Meetup:
Invite Friends:
To make this party the biggest of 2014 you can share the RSVP on-line invite or check out my web page with ideas on how spread the word:

 
Funding:

This party is being crowd funded to enable an opportunity for everyone to come and get some cheer in their life after the festive period and during the lull of January which for some people can be a challenging time. Donating funds to the pot would be greatly appreciated by myself and friends who are kindly donating their offering to the night.

Donate Online:          http://www.gofundme.com/4y2h7g
  Facebook Group:
I have started a group on Facebook for friends to share about the events but also to make arrangements with each other for lifts, sleeping over and anything else you may need for the party   https://www.facebook.com/groups/revivealternativeevents/

I look forward to seeing all of you at the party in the New Year.

With Love & Hugs
Shanti Kate


www.shantikate78.co.uk